I will admit that the phrases "defund the police" and/or "abolish the police" make me uncomfortable. Which is to say, they make my privilege uncomfortable. I take for granted that the police will protect me. That they won't shoot my children. That they will come when I call them. I believed that...until I listened to…
Tag: Black Lives Matter
Travel Cost
To all the white people warning me about "carrying around white guilt"...There’s no need. To those fretting that I am too fragile, don't. I'm not. Let me be clear about this, accepting and confronting white privilege does not require the feeling of guilt. Guilt is a chosen emotion and in my opinion, it is a wholly…
Take off the blindfold
I took Instagram off my phone. I wanted to spend a week away from it. I've curated a demanding feed for myself since May. One that calls me to recognize my entitlement, invites me to think more critically, and strengthens my humanity. I've been following and posting with more intention since then. I've shared my…
Empathy in Action – The start of a Conversation
Note: I wrote this essay at the end of May shortly after George Floyd was murdered. Since then, I have immersed myself in as much anti-racist thinking as I can. I'm raising two young children so it is challenging to find time to think and write and learn. But really, it is my children that…
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to the ashes of my father
there is a prayer that i heard you say. you said, may god take your hearts and set them on fire. we burned your body after you left. your ashes rest on a piano in a room where we don't let the children play. when the buildings burn, like hearts, i think of your god…
Not them
if I fail to see the humanity of another person, then I am the problem. not them if I choose to step over the suffering of another person, then I am the thug. not them if I take everything from my life without thinking of those that lost theirs, then I am the looter. not…
Taking these next few weeks to lift up Black voices. This piece is from Inside the Kandi Dish. I've heard so many of my white friends share concerns that they "don't know what to do." Start by reading this: Dear White People, This is What We Want You to Do